Daily letters from the restaurant owner, and general manager Christine Fauver. These are written to her restaurant kitchen team and front of the house servers to show her appreciation for what they do and to encourage them not only at work but in their daily lives.

Daily Encouragement for 4-7-2024

As we continue setting up a mindful exercise regimen, I want you to seek ways to cultivate mindfulness throughout your day. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations without judgment. Science has shown us that thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations are impacted by the day you had 72 hours ago. It is interesting how your current day was affected by a situation that happened three days ago.   Mindfulness can help you manage stress, enhance focus, and increase self-awareness. Maintaining meaningful connections with others is crucial for your mental workout. Social support plays a vital role in mental health, so make an effort to spend time with loved ones, whether in person, by phone, by letter, or virtually.
This month, I encourage you to invest time in understanding the significance of mental exercise. By staying informed about strategies and well-being techniques, you equip yourself with diverse coping mechanisms and therapeutic approaches. Remember, progress is about moving forward, even if it’s just by one percent.
Remember the value of self-assessment. Consider journaling and regularly reviewing your mental health journey. Celebrate your achievements, acknowledge your setbacks, and adapt your approach as necessary. Remember, progress is not always a straight line, and it’s perfectly fine to seek assistance when facing challenges.
My go-to solution when tackling a less-than-ideal situation is pouring gratitude into it. Focus on your life’s positive aspects to cultivate a gratitude mindset. Expressing gratitude regularly can enhance overall well-being and resilience. Be purposeful in looking at life through a different lens. It will be difficult, and sometimes it will feel impossible, but if you try each day to cultivate an attitude of gratitude, it will change the day for you and those around you.
Committing to these daily practices and being intentional about mental exercise can cultivate resilience, improve coping skills, and enhance overall quality of life. Remember that prioritizing mental health is not a one-time effort but a continuous journey that requires dedication and self-care.

Daily Encouragement for 4-6-2024

Just like you would create a structured exercise program for your physical body, you must create a structured plan to help prioritize and maintain mental fitness:
Self-Assessment: Take time to reflect on your current mental state. Identify any areas of concern, stressors, or triggers affecting your well-being.
Goal Setting: Envision a future of growth and achievement for your mental health. Define clear and achievable goals, such as improving coping mechanisms, reducing stress levels, enhancing self-esteem, or fostering positive relationships. Each goal is a step towards a brighter, healthier you. Just as you would with physical health, create a daily routine prioritizing mental wellness. This might include mindfulness practices, meditation, journaling, exercise, or engaging in hobbies that bring you joy.
Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out for support when needed. This could involve talking to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. Building a support network can provide invaluable assistance during challenging times.
Cherish yourself by making self-care a non-negotiable part of your daily routine. This could involve setting boundaries, saying no when necessary, getting enough sleep, eating nourishing foods, and engaging in relaxation and rejuvenation activities. Remember, you are worthy of this care. Taking these steps is a starting point towards living a life of freedom. I hope your weekend is full of ideas, rest, creativity, learning, serving, and relaxation.  

Daily Encouragement for 4-5-2024

How are you managing your emotions? Emotional fitness is essential to a successful day and a fulfilled life. You can choose to play the victim or live a victorious life. Are you living a reactive life, or are you choosing to respond? Are you choosing gratefulness over fear? Are you in a selfish place or service-minded? Are you choosing resistance and defensiveness over a growth mindset? Assessing your situation and running it through a lens of productivity rather than a negative lens is much like working out. It isn’t easy at first, but eventually, it leads to a fulfilling whole life. Your joy is your job.

You can be a strong, courageous, creative, compassionate individual. Your emotions don’t have to own you. Chaos, pain, fear, anxiety, and disappointment are not a new concept, but you can learn how to navigate all negative emotions with an optimistic viewpoint. Learning to manage your emotions and the emotions of others is an integral part of your growth and an essential part of your success. Choose living today over avoiding a situation. Choose to walk in freedom over fear. Are you choosing engagement over avoidance? How are you dealing with your emotions? How are you dealing with others’ emotions? Are you evaluating your emotions? Have you considered scoring yourself? Measurements are an essential part of seeing your success. How will you develop this skill? An emotion is not who you are. It’s not your identity! It’s ok to have an emotion you don’t like. Life is not always easy, but you can learn how to navigate the negative emotions. Learning to manage your emotions will give you another level of freedom.  

Daily Encouragement for 4-4-2024

Good Morning! I’m writing to give you a bit of encouragement before your shift starts. Thank you for choosing to spend your time and sharing your talents at the Goochland Restaurant.

Think of today as a preparation for your best self tomorrow. Becoming your best for a future opportunity is much like working out. Who do you want to be today? How are you going to be purposeful with mental fitness? Everyone knows physical fitness is essential; however, mental wellness is just as necessary. How are you being in command of your mental fitness, or are you giving it away to meaningless drama? Are you living an entirely intentional life? Are you envisioning the future, or does useless and painful thinking trap you? Are you choosing to read a book or endlessly scrolling? You can condition yourself for anything. Will it be for positive or for good? How are you being creative? Are you owning your time or allowing intrusive thoughts to dictate your time? What are you going to teach your brain to do today? How are you labeling yourself? Everyone has the capacity for greatness, and you have to practice.
Consider brainstorming each day on how to be more positive, productive, and kind. Taming your thoughts is part of mental fitness. Thoughts are not evil, but are they true, accurate, and helpful, and will they productively push you? Take notice of your mental chatter. Choose to be happy. Your joy is your job. Be intentional about serving others. Be deliberate about using your mind to be satisfied. Mental fitness is essential for your success. Mental fitness allows you to get out of your mind. Are you generous? Mental fitness helps you be generous with others. What’s your mental fitness definition?